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Developing socially to work in the world. 

Dark does not have a frequency and this is why the moon is so important at night. The megahertz can only be measured in the light. Energy can be said to be magnetic. And a person can say I am set up for frequency so therefore I do better in the light not the dark. However, when I use my oils to write at night my brain seems to burst open and I write with passion. Jesus was in the world not of it. We come to live in the world to learn lessons to master and develop programs to educate. We step on the spiritual path. We all have to learn a lesson. We have two kinds of people who heal. 

We come to be in the world but some of us step on a spiritual path and say every comes from love. The other type of healer see the darkness and steps up to learn how to figure out the darkness and remove the darkness. There are many types of healing and practices. 

The people come to be on earth to learn or relearn how to improve ways to solove different mind-body and spiritual souls work. God develops the programs in the world from open mindset in humans who are listening not praying. 
God develops programs by giving you ideas in your brain in the dream state or an idea will be a thought in your awake state.  The idea will be researched and figured out how to solve putting the idea to work. God asks us to go the extra mile in learning to solve. 

Go the extra mile. not too many people go down that road. 
Influencing your audience. 

Influence meaning the capacity to have an effect on the character, development, or behavior of someone or something, or the effect itself:
"the influence of television violence" · "I was still under the influence of my parents" · "their friends are having a bad influence on them"

Careers all influence doctors to look for illness. 

Nurses are looking to compare to see if healing is moving in the proper order and no other issues are happening. 
Teacher teaches by grade school. 
And when you get to college your brain is pushed beyond each grade into Logical and Creative. The brains all work this way. 

Leaders or someone wanting to influence actually turn off the brain when they talk negatively. 

You must do, you have to do. Unless you change you cannot move forward. 

Words have power and can shift the person to listen or hear the negative and push you away from growth. 

 

Pain Very Mild to major and also emotion develops to stages of life. Some people get stuck in the pain and never work to go back through the emotion to overcome that and meet me to help them Identify the pain to block and shine light on to reinvent and reprogram the personal power back in. 



Teaching people not to overthink. We should be teaching the to solve the problem and move on from the research of what they know to be true. The personal can learn to heal the old imprints and develop a ideas in positive  processing to solve. You then can stop obsessively overthinking using the art of smell. The person can set up a 21 or 30 day commitment to your self to change how you process for out comes one thought at a time using the art of smell as your tool. The goal is to aid yourself to solve each problem for a better outcomes and more even temperament. The 5 senses are sight, sound, taste, touch and smell. The are of smell is the strongest of all the 5 spiritual senses to aid changes.

When we are setting up the time frame to reframe the body, emotion, mental mind and sould we are assisting the spiritual energy to set your self on a timeline to develop daily affirmations.  

  



This blog post discusses Erik Erikson's theory of psychosocial development and how it applies to different stages of life. The article explores each stage, from infancy to old age, highlighting the challenges and outcomes associated with each phase. It emphasizes the importance of developing trust, autonomy, initiative, industry, identity, intimacy, generativity, and integrity throughout life. The author recommends using Young Living essential oil blends to support emotional intelligence and personal growth during each stage of development. Ultimately, the article suggests that understanding and actively working through these stages can lead to a sense of fulfillment, satisfaction, and wisdom in the later years of life.



Stage 1: Trust (Use the blend of Loyalty OIL to aid) VS. MISTRUST (Use the blend of inner child to support you) 

The first stage of Erikson's theory of psychosocial development occurs between birth and 1 year of age and is the most fundamental stage in life. Because an infant is utterly dependent, developing trust is based on the dependability and quality of the child's caregivers.
At this point in development, the child is utterly dependent upon adult caregivers for everything they need to survive including food, love, warmth, safety, and nurturing. If a caregiver fails to provide adequate care and love, the child will come to feel that they cannot trust or depend upon the adults in their life.

Outcomes

If a child successfully develops trust, the child will feel safe and secure in the world.2 Caregivers who are inconsistent, emotionally unavailable, or rejecting contribute to feelings of mistrust in the children under their care. Failure to develop trust will result in fear and a belief that the world is inconsistent and unpredictable.
During the first stage of psychosocial development, children develop a sense of trust when caregivers provide reliability, care, and affection. A lack of this will lead to mistrust.
No child is going. Erikson believed that successful development was all about striking a balance between the two opposing sides. When this happens, children acquire hope, which Erikson described as an openness to experience tempered by some wariness that danger may be present.
Subsequent work by researchers including John Bowlby and Mary Ainsworth demonstrated the importance of trust in forming healthy attachments during childhood and adulthood.

Stage 2: Autonomy (Hope supports) vs. Shame and Doubt  Doubt is grief Sorrow Use the oils of valor Forgiveness and white anglecia, Trauma life to support emotional intelegents. 

The second stage of Erikson's theory of psychosocial development takes place during early childhood and is focused on children developing a greater sense of personal control. Two to three years of age. 

The Role of Independence

At this point in development, children are just starting to gain a little independence. They are starting to perform basic actions on their own and making simple decisions about what they prefer. By allowing kids to make choices and gain control, parents and caregivers can help children develop a sense of autonomy.2

Potty Training

The essential theme of this stage is that children need to develop a sense of personal control over physical skills and a sense of independence. Potty training plays an important role in helping children develop this sense of autonomy.
Like Freud, Erikson believed that toilet training was a vital part of this process. However, Erikson's reasoning was quite different than that of Freud's. Erikson believed that learning to control one's bodily functions leads to a feeling of control and a sense of independence. Other important events include gaining more control over food choices, toy preferences, and clothing selection.

Outcomes

Children who struggle and who are shamed for their accidents may be left without a sense of personal control. Success during this stage of psychosocial development leads to feelings of autonomy; failure results in feelings of shame and doubt.

Finding Balance

Children who successfully complete this stage feel secure and confident, while those who do not are left with a sense of inadequacy and self-doubt. Erikson believed that achieving a balance between autonomy and shame and doubt would lead to will, which is the belief that children can act with intention, within reason and limits.

Stage 3: Initiative vs. Guilt 


Gathering Magnifies will support your purpose blend for initiative and 
Present time and inner child will support your timelines reminds you of this now not then. 
5 to 10 years. 
The third stage of psychosocial development takes place during the preschool years. At this point in psychosocial development, children begin to assert their power and control over the world through directing play and other social interactions.
Children who are successful at this stage feel capable and able to lead others. Those who fail to acquire these skills are left with a sense of guilt, self-doubt, and lack of initiative.

Outcomes

The major theme of the third stage of psychosocial development is that children need to begin asserting control and power over the environment. Success in this stage leads to a sense of purpose. Children who try to exert too much power experience disapproval, resulting in a sense of guilt.
When an ideal balance of individual initiative and a willingness to work with others is achieved, the ego quality known as purpose emerges.

Stage 4: Industry vs. Inferiority 

Peppermint will support become industrious. 
Inferiority Discouragement lets focus on learning to be sacred so we might want to use Sacred Mountain. Present Time and Harmony for support.  

The fourth psychosocial stage takes place during the early school years from approximately ages 5 to 11. Through social interactions, children begin to develop a sense of pride in their accomplishments and abilities.
Children need to cope with new social and academic demands. Success leads to a sense of competence, while failure results in feelings of inferiority.

Outcomes

Children who are encouraged and commended by parents and teachers develop a feeling of competence and belief in their skills. Those who receive little or no encouragement from parents, teachers, or peers will doubt their abilities to be successful.
Successfully finding a balance at this stage of psychosocial development leads to the strength known as competence, in which children develop a belief in their abilities to handle the tasks set before them.

Stage 5: Identity vs. Confusion

Identity - My picks for this coffee break chat are Harmony, Envision, Brain power to support you. Confusion my pick for awakening with Clarity to support the emotional intelligent
The fifth psychosocial stage takes place during the often-turbulent teenage years. This stage plays an essential role in developing a sense of personal identity which will continue to influence behavior and development for the rest of a person's life. Teens need to develop a sense of self and personal identity. Success leads to an ability to stay true to yourself, while failure leads to role confusion and a weak sense of self.
During adolescence, children explore their independence and develop a sense of self.2 Those who receive proper encouragement and reinforcement through personal exploration will emerge from this stage with a strong sense of self and feelings of independence and control. Those who remain unsure of their beliefs and desires will feel insecure and confused about themselves and the future.

What Is Identity? Start at the beginning of life

When psychologists talk about identity, they are referring to all of the beliefs, ideals, and values that help shape and guide a person's behavior. Completing this stage successfully leads to fidelity, which Erikson described as an ability to live by society's standards and expectations.
While Erikson believed that each stage of psychosocial development was important, he placed a particular emphasis on the development of ego identity. Ego identity is the conscious sense of self that we develop through social interaction and becomes a central focus during the identity versus confusion stage of psychosocial development.
According to Erikson, our ego identity constantly changes due to new experiences and information we acquire in our daily interactions with others. As we have new experiences, we also take on challenges that can help or hinder the development of identity.

Why Identity Is Important

Our personal identity gives each of us an integrated and cohesive sense of self that endures through our lives. Our sense of personal identity is shaped by our experiences and interactions with others, and it is this identity that helps guide our actions, beliefs, and behaviors as we age.

Stage 6: Intimacy vs. Isolation

Intimacy Ylang ylang might aid you…Joy blend Isolation is Disappointment Motivation Spruce or orange are great support for the mind body. 
Young adults need to form intimate, loving relationships with other people. Success leads to strong relationships, while failure results in loneliness and isolation. This stage covers the period of early adulthood when people are exploring personal relationships.2
Erikson believed it was vital that people develop close, committed relationships with other people. Those who are successful at this step will form relationships that are enduring and secure.

Building On Earlier Stages

Remember that each step builds on skills learned in previous steps. Erikson believed that a strong sense of personal identity was important for developing intimate relationships. Studies have demonstrated that those with a poor sense of self tend to have less committed relationships and are more likely to struggler with emotional isolation, loneliness, and depression.
Successful resolution of this stage results in the virtue known as love. It is marked by the ability to form lasting, meaningful relationships with other people.

Stage 7: Generativity production or reproduction) vs. Stagnation

Generativity magnify your purpose might aid you. Stagnation into the Future with peppermint would aid the body. 
 
Adults need to create or nurture things that will outlast them, often by having children or creating a positive change that benefits other people. Success leads to feelings of usefulness and accomplishment, while failure results in shallow involvement in the world.
During adulthood, we continue to build our lives, focusing on our career and family. Those who are successful during this phase will feel that they are contributing to the world by being active in their home and community.2 Those who fail to attain this skill will feel unproductive and uninvolved in the world.
Care is the virtue achieved when this stage is handled successfully. Being proud of your accomplishments, watching your children grow into adults, and developing a sense of unity with your life partner are important accomplishments of this stage.

Stage 8: Integrity vs. Despair 

Integrity one could use Frankincense to support the body. 
Despair sacred mountain Hope blend for support of the emotional intellegents.  

The final psychosocial stage occurs during old age and is focused on reflecting back on life.2 At this point in development, people look back on the events of their lives and determine if they are happy with the life that they lived or if they regret the things they did or didn't do.

Erikson's theory differed from many others because it addressed development throughout the entire lifespan, including old age. Older adults need to look back on life and feel a sense of fulfillment. Success at this stage leads to feelings of wisdom, while failure results in regret, bitterness, and despair.
At this stage, people reflect back on the events of their lives and take stock. Those who look back on a life they feel was well-lived will feel satisfied and ready to face the end of their lives with a sense of peace. Those who look back and only feel regret will instead feel fearful that their lives will end without accomplishing the things they feel they should have.

Outcomes

Those who are unsuccessful during this stage will feel that their life has been wasted and may experience many regrets. The person will be left with feelings of bitterness and despair.
Those who feel proud of their accomplishments will feel a sense of integrity. Successfully completing this phase means looking back with few regrets and a general feeling of satisfaction. These individuals will attain wisdom, even when confronting death.

Strengths and Weaknesses of Erikson's Theory

Erikson's theory also has its limitations and attracts valid criticisms. What kinds of experiences are necessary to successfully complete each stage? How does a person move from one stage to the next?

Criticism

One major weakness of psychosocial theory is that the exact mechanisms for resolving conflicts and moving from one stage to the next are not well described or developed. The theory fails to detail exactly what type of experiences are necessary at each stage in order to successfully resolve the conflicts and move to the next stage.

Support

One of the strengths of psychosocial theory is that it provides a broad framework from which to view development throughout the entire lifespan. It also allows us to emphasize the social nature of human beings and the important influence that social relationships have on development.
Researchers have found evidence supporting Erikson's ideas about identity and have further identified different sub-stages of identity formation.4 Some research also suggests that people who form strong personal identities during adolescence are better capable of forming intimate relationships during early adulthood. Other research suggests, however, that identity formation and development continue well into adulthood.


Why Was Erikson's Theory Important?

The theory was significant because it addressed development throughout a person's life, not just during childhood. It also stressed the importance of social relationships in shaping personality and growth at each point in development.
It is important to remember that the psychosocial stages are just one theory of personality development. Some research may support certain aspects of this theoretical framework, but that does not mean that every aspect of the theory is supported by evidence. The theory can, however, be a helpful way to think about some of the different conflicts and challenges that people may face as they go through life.
It is also easy to look at each stage of Erikson's theory and consider how it can apply to your life. Learning about each stage can provide insight into what you might face as you age. It can also help you reflect on things that may have happened in the past and help you see ways you might be able to improve your coping skills to better deal with today's challenges.
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Young Living, founded by Gary and Mary Young in 1993, is a pioneering billion-dollar company dedicated to the highest standards in essential oils. This isn't just a hobby for me—it's my life's work! If you've ever dreamed of a fulfilling home-based business, I invite you to join me in this journey. With just a computer, phone, and iPad, you can start transforming your life and the lives of others. And, of course, your monthly loyalty order keeps you stocked with our concentrated, money-saving products.

By transferring your buying power, you not only save money but also embrace a healthier lifestyle. For instance, I have been able to cut my cleaning budget in half, saving $200, simply by mixing my own solutions with our concentrated products.

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